Anonymous asked: in relation to the question about the mother; the problem is that no matter how many times you talk to her and ask her to pay attention to you, there is always something else. for example, at the moment i have two brothers one of which steals and the other causes trouble at school, but when they both do something wrong; i always get the blame. i just need help trying to figure out how to handle to situation <3
And you’ve tried approaching her when she has no other preoccupations, yes? Unfortunately, if there is absolutely no way of breaking her stone-walling, you might get stuck with the blame. But maybe you can try talking with those two brother to work something out. Also, do you have a good supporting system of friends, perhaps? It sounds a tad cheesy, but having at least one person to vent and share with can help significantly. I know that stress can get unbearable. If it is at all possible, you can drag your mum somehow to therapy. She needs to understand your gravity and care for the situation. Ask her to talk with you when she does actually have the time, instead of approach her when you think she does.
Moreover, let yourself relax a little—if she’s giving you too hard of a time. Don’t forget that you need to be yourself and enjoy/let go a little too. You’re not alone, and you’ll weather this through.
I wish for you the best and will be here if you need anything more.
Thank you so much for sharing. <3